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Q: My aging mother has been living in a nursing home for just over a year. She's always been a very positive person, but now she barely speaks to us when we visit her. Is depression a normal part of the aging process? What can we do?

Jim: Professional counselors say that, unfortunately, depression can be fairly common among people in your ...Read more

Q: Ever since my daughter became a teenager it feels like I’m raising a little monster. Honestly -- and I’m ashamed to say it -- there are times I just want to pull away and separate from all the drama. Help!?

Jim: Having raised two sons to adulthood, I understand. That sweet child who used to meet you at the front door every night after ...Read more

Q: While my husband was away on a weeklong business trip, I had a male friend from the office come over to eat and brainstorm a work project. After my young daughter fell asleep, we hung out watching movies together. When I told my husband about it, he got upset and feels that I’ve betrayed him. I think he’s overreacting; what’s your take?...Read more

Q: My wife left me and filed for divorce, which I didn’t want. But now it’s done. I’m concerned about how I can have a positive influence on my kids since I’m only allowed to be with them a few days out of each month. Do you have any advice?

Jim: My heart goes out to you. While it may seem trite, a good place to begin is with the ...Read more

Q: My wife and I both recently retired. We weren't able to have children, and through most of our 45 years of marriage we've just quietly gone about our daily business. Neither of us finished college or ever accomplished anything really noteworthy. We don't have a legacy to leave anyone; still, we want to have an impact on younger generations. ...Read more